What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
Last Updated: 19.06.2025 00:18
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?
Why do narcissist move on so easily?
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
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14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
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If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
Can people who have never met you tell if you are a covert narcissist?
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
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82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
What is every dictators biggest fear?
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
*** Random Questions ***
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
What sexual experience did you have at a highway rest area?
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
Have you ever? Care to Share?
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
The Ice Breaker Questions
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
How many times do you think you have “made love”?
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?
Please share Did you stop?
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?
14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
Any that are a turn off?
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…
Do you think this brought you closer together?
*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
8- What are your thoughts on politics?
Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
How old are you? Male or Female?
3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
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Master/Slave Boss/Maid
If yes, what?
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
Nothing too Serious
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?
26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
Any that are a turn off?
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
29- How superstitious are you?
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?
*** Questions About Me ***
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?
Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)
92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?
46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
39~ What are your love languages?
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?
Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
62~ Have you used adult toys?
18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…
16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…
13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…
11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?
29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
What is your favorite position? Why?
85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
Would you read them together?
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…
Family Relation Age Play
I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
47~ What would be your dream job and why?
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
52~ What are your hobbies?
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
If you win, what will you make them do?
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?